— or Emris, depending on which door you came through.
I am He who always said yes and is learning to say no. He who shares advice and suggestions as if they were flower petals on carnival — not because He thinks he's smarter, but because He has done considerably more stupid stuff than the average human, which tends to teach you one or two things.
I was born in Veracruz, Mexico. Son of the winter solstice of 1970 and Akasha, my mother, who taught me everything I know about Kundalini Yoga, resilience and perseverance. I am Eduardo by birth and Emris by grace. Have lived in the UK since 2002 where I moved after a few years in the US — NYC and San Francisco before that.
I've been practising Kundalini since 1991 — first as an imposed conversion-therapy and then as a truly embraced and loved daily practice. A lot hedonistic and a bit narcissistic; I've been a personal trainer since 2002. In 2017 I began working directly with people navigating mental health conditions and severe and complex disabilities — seven years that ignited huge kindness and empathy in my heart.
I've been through some rough times. The experience lives inside all of my books. I am here not to tell anyone what to do or how to be. I'm simply here to share what I've done, what killed me and what healed me. Everything else is for you to decide.
At this point in my life it is more important creating and sustaining a safe space for people to simply be themselves in whatever version they are currently experiencing, than having an agenda to buy a beautiful house or travel around the world. Not to brag about that, but in truth, I've been there and done that. So what's next is honest, pure and from my heart. No filters and no agenda.
And from that place — The Emris Code.
I built it from experience, wonder and a lot of imagination. The kind that makes you say and do stupid things, and at the end keeps you coming back for more.
Tappilini, my books and my Mirror Sessions are my very serious, professional and disciplined side. There's only one part of me that takes no jokes and no BS, and that is your health and safety.
At this point, what matters most to me is simple: that you don't feel alone or unsafe within whatever you're carrying. I've been there. I know what pain, shame and silence feel like. So I'll just say this because I care — don't give up. Not because I have a programme to sell you, but because I genuinely mean it. I love you. Stranger or not.
If you got here from one of my books, or maybe from a social media post, welcome. If you arrived here by mistake, coincidence or pure random chance... I salute you, for you are the essence of this universe I've been waiting for. Please make yourselves comfortable, browse, share and comment.
Only one rule: Be always kind, with yourself and others.
I'll see you soon.
Every door leads somewhere real. Choose the one that feels closest to where you are right now.